There is nothing about any other person that you can improve, assist, or relieve with negative energy. Fear, worry, concern, and pity etc. can NEVER help. "IF IT’S NOT BROKE – DON’T 'FIX IT'!"
Not one of us knows enough to “fix” someone else; all we can ever do that is genuinely helpful is to support, assist, empower, appreciate,share what we have, and keep out of the way.
THE MAIN THING MISSING IN LAW ENFORCEMENT IS A REALIZATION THAT ‘PUNISHMENT’ IN THE SYSTEM SHOULD NOT EVER BE USED - WITH A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE.
We just can’t ‘get’ that God is love.
THE ANSWER TO EVERY PROBLEM BEGINS WITH 'Work on yourself First'